Post Marital Sex
I read this post on premarital sex by Fishy_Ishy. Quite interesting debate she did start. I wouldn't really mind being with a women who has lost her virginity before meeting me. Not everyone can neccessarily control there sexual emotions. Hormones do play up and wanting for sex at a particular age i guess is just normal. so if you did have had sex before marriage its fine.but i like to take this topic to a different level. With the influence of western lifestyle influence (we desi's) i have seen many people men/women being involved in post marital sex. Ofcourse though many men have always been involved in post marital sex in India too, it has never come to the point where women have got the courage or were exposed. Well if the men did find those women who were they...ofcourse many married too. Hey Nithi if you did read this post why dont you steer a topic on this. I would like to know about others opinion on this topic.
A new recent trend in post marital sex is "One Night Stands". You Girl/Guy went to a party met nice friendly person of opposite sex, had a nice wonderfull chat, knew you will never meet again, decide to have fun and have sex. Ofcourse its forgotten the very next day. You get on with your normal life with your partner. I am sure you end of having sex with your partner too the very same week. Things haven't really changed just because you slept with some other person. People just look at it as a good thrill ride they went. It like you still eat desi daal, but once a while you like to go for a nice chinese cusine. Both the men and the women accept this. Well haven't been really sure how far they do talka bout there other encounters with each other, they do very well know there partners do have a one night stands once a while.
But its become a way of living in the western world. Relationships are altogether going to a new level. Is this acceptable!
Watch the movie mixed double though the director did try to bring out an eccentric lifestyle in todays world, i was not quite sure if his motives of what he tried to say did quite reach the common.
Will continue more on this topic.
posted by crazylife @ 5:30 PM
5 Comments:
why is sex such a hoopla?!
Ireally dont know Ishy. Sometimes i even feel that sex is over-rated. But still its been a vital part of relationships between the oppposite sex. Even being attracted to someone is a form of a sexual desire i would say.
Hi
How r u. I hope all is well and your partner is also fine.
I think sex is very intimate feeling when you do it with the one you are commited to. Commitment with your boyfriend/ girlfriend or wife/ husband. If we just do it with anyone for one night stand then there would be no difference in animal and a human being.
Have a nice day
Nidhi
Hi
Its been long since you posted anything. I am just trying my luck if u read this comment. I have tagged you at my blog, if u feel like do post the answers at your blog.
Cheers
Nidhi
Back again. Really busy for a long time. I am back into blogging and hope there are going to be lots of readers.
Answers to Nidhi's
Well what you said is true. But then what explanation would you have to people who sleep around
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